Question Asker:
Relationship/Trust issues?
I am seeing a guy. We aren't technically "dating", but we are sleeping together. I have known him for years and we were best friends. Then, he started dating this girl for about a year. They broke up a little over a month ago. That's when I came in. He says he doesn't want a serious relationship... but we are together a lot, and we have sex. I found out that he was receiving "favors" from another mutual friend of ours. I was so upset. Now he tells me that it was before we started hanging out. Other friends hint around like he is lying to me, but I can't get a straight answer out of anyone but him... I have always trusted him. He has never given me a reason not too. I'm not sure what to believe... I know you don't know the whole situation in great detail, but I need some advice on what to do. Do I sound like one of those girls who's guy is cheating right in front of their face, but they don't want to believe it?
Joanna's Answer:
You have to first decide what YOU want in a relationship.
You matter !
You have to then decide if what YOU want, if he also desires that kind of relationship as well
That is what a real relationship is about.
You are giving physical intimacy to someone in the wrong order.
Relationships work best when there is a MUTUAL understanding between the two people involved.
If he desires to sleep with other people aside from you and has stated he does not want a serious relationship, Then you need to decide if you want that too
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There is a simple law :
you do not own anyone and no one owns you.
He can do what he wants
It is only your job to decide if whether or not you wish to put up with it.
other than that he has no obligation to account to you for his behavior unless you both mutually set the relationship up with those parameters in mind.
Asker's Rating:
5 out of 5
Asker's Comment:
Thanks! I told him that I couldn't keep going with the way things are. We still hang out but we are saving the physical stuff so I don't get attached. We realized we weren't on the same page... Great advice! thanks!
Are You Keeping Your Man?
I have received a few inquiries from women who take on 100% of the relationship burden, they pay all bills and keep their man stress free.
Ladies, this is not a relationship, this is called being "kept".
Even with all of the effort, heart and expense, you cannot force a man to love you.
This cannot be bought. You cannot confuse the things he loves that YOU DO for him, for him just loving you for being YOU. I am often asked how long do these relationships last.
My answer is, they can last as long as you can afford them.
When the money runs out, they do as well.
Ladies, this is not a relationship, this is called being "kept".
Even with all of the effort, heart and expense, you cannot force a man to love you.
This cannot be bought. You cannot confuse the things he loves that YOU DO for him, for him just loving you for being YOU. I am often asked how long do these relationships last.
My answer is, they can last as long as you can afford them.
When the money runs out, they do as well.
He Had Sunglasses in his ad!
I received an email today from a woman who had been corresponding with a man through a personal ad. His ad showed his face half covered with hat and shades.
my experience with clients have shown that men who have this kind of photo as their main ad picture is in an relationship with unfinished business.
Which in this case was correct.
These connections are a waste of time. you need to devote your time to someone who is ready and available for a new relationship. It is unfair to you to tie yourself up to wait on someone who may/may not become available.
my experience with clients have shown that men who have this kind of photo as their main ad picture is in an relationship with unfinished business.
Which in this case was correct.
These connections are a waste of time. you need to devote your time to someone who is ready and available for a new relationship. It is unfair to you to tie yourself up to wait on someone who may/may not become available.
It is OK to fall asleep during the Telepathic Exercise
I have received several emails from people who say they feel so relaxed they fall asleep during the garden/brick wall exercise. That portion of the audio, I created to put your mind in a suspended state to send and receive telepathic communication.
So we have been getting good reports about those waking up and soon after receiving communication or information about the person they were thinking about
So we have been getting good reports about those waking up and soon after receiving communication or information about the person they were thinking about
Women should not put up with....
It shows very low self esteem when a woman continues to further a relationship when she knows the man is cheating. when you give him open permission to see other people in fear of losing him, you are perpetuating the other relationship to last.
He cannot possibly perceive your value until you are gone.
In order to know if he really does love you, you must end the relationship on your end so he can be fully immersed with the other female.
Only then can he start to really compare and determine his return.
In summation, he will not miss the water until the well runs dry.
He cannot possibly perceive your value until you are gone.
In order to know if he really does love you, you must end the relationship on your end so he can be fully immersed with the other female.
Only then can he start to really compare and determine his return.
In summation, he will not miss the water until the well runs dry.
New MP3
I am coming out with new soulmate technology which involves LPB to increase attraction, combined with a new bracelet I have invented.
I will keep you posted on details.
I will keep you posted on details.
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