How To Get Your Ex Back

I don’t know anyone who hasn’t gone through the painful experience of a break-up. The old song says “breaking up is hard to do” and, boy, did they have THAT one right! Having experienced a couple of serious break-ups myself, I KNOW what a debilitating, devastating,HORRIBLE experience it is.
I wish the Internet had been around then… Well, to be specific: I wish T. W. Jackson’s webpages on the Internet had been around then because I could have really used some of the resources “T-Dub” has on those pages.
T-Dub Jackson isn’t a therapist or a marriage counselor or a psychologist or anything like that… What he is is a person who’s been around the block quite a few times and the person all of his friends turned to for advice when they were really hurting. Five years ago, he decided to take his mad skills of successfully helping people get back into happy relationships with their exes to the world at large and it’s been full-steam ahead ever since.

At last count, T-Dub has helped over FIFTY THOUSAND PEOPLE in SEVENTY-SEVEN different countries get the relationships they thought were gone forever BACK ON TRACK and, without a doubt, I can say that he can do it for YOU, TOO!
Here’s a link to one of his webpages that you are going to want to BOOKMARK as soon as< you get there because that page is OVERFLOWING with TONS of great resources, advice, links to other pages and copious other info that you’re going to want to access again and again:
HowDoIGetMyExBoyFriendBack.org .

Rightly so, T-Dub immediately brings up the fact that the first thing you need to do during or after a break-up is spend some serious time re-examining your OWN state of mind and motivations/actions/etc. If you scroll down just past the half-way mark on that page, you’ll find his “5 Steps” dealing with self-reflection. I think these are exercises that EVERYONE -- regardless of their relationship status -- should take a look at. Because I believe wholeheartedly that it’s only by honest, critical and thorough self-examination that we have any hope of changing for the better! It’s amazing because this man seems to have ALL of the answers to relationship problems and what to do about them… I don’t mind telling you, I was BLOWN AWAY when I first set eyes on his webpage… The resources and links are jam-packed into every square inch of that page!
Just down the right-hand margin are enough links to keep you busy for DAYS.  Things like:
“What do men secretly want?”, “Get Your Ex Back NOW!”, “What every man wants but almost NO woman gives”. In addition (still just in the right-hand margin!) what amounts to DOZENS oflinks on “How do I get my husband to respect me?”, “Why do men lie so much to women they love?”, “Text your ex back into your life. Can it actually be done?”, “The Ex Back Formula for FREE”, Get Your Ex Back Forums and TONS more!
There’s a free video on the page where T-Dub talks about a particular case study and then, if you click on the link just beneath the video, you’ll be taken to another of T-Dub’s pages that has two MORE free videos where he talks about “The First Step to Stopping a Break-Up” and his “Calm Mind Technique” -- extremely VALUABLE videos with tons MORE info and advice that you can really use!

And one of the BEST things about ordering the book is that it’s RISK FREE. That’s right! Once you order “Magic of Making Up”, you have a FULL SIXTY DAYS (that’s TWO MONTHS) during which -- at any time for any reason -- you can return it and get ALL of your MONEY BACK! With an offer like that, how could anyone go wrong?
Bottom-line: I think you’ll appreciate T-Dub’s common sense, experienced -- no baloney --approach to relationships and how get them back and keep them as much as I do. This guy is absolutely THE REAL DEAL!
So, once more, here’s the link to T-Dub Jackson’s webpage that has all the links to his other pages that you are definitely going to want to take a look at -- REGARDLESS of your relationship status!
HowDoIGetMyExBoyFriendBack.org

Well? What are you waiting for? Get GOING!

Decide You are Ready To Meet Your Soulmate

Make the commitment right now. Decide that you are ready, willing and available for BIG LOVE. Allow yourself to "feel" what it feels like to be deeply loved and connected. If you "feel" it you can do it. (no matter what your age, weight or income!)

Know with every part of your being that the one that you are longing for is on the way to you right now. Make a plan and share it with your best friend and ask them to support you in manifesting your soul mate. Be open to meeting and dating.

Take the first step and begin preparing using "The Direct Your Soulmate Meditation and Resources" , when you have cleared the clutter from your heart and mind,  determine how you will meet meet people. If you are signing up for online personals it is best to watch a site for a month to monitor actiity before dating anyone. This way you can tell the "serial daters" from those who are serious about finding a relationship. It is best to connect on Facebook with someone and slowly get to know them before plunging in. Use every chance to view someone's charecter and reputation from a distance so you know in advance you are meeting a quality person.

Having Good Conversation on Your First Date

Any day now it will be time for that first date and it's time to prepare. Think about three things about yourself that you are willing to share...it may be stuff you haven't thought about for a very long time.

Arielle Ford Comments :
"For instance, when I was in high school I was a baton twirler for the Miami Dolphins. I was known as a Dolphin Doll. While it isn't one of my favorite memories, most men find this small bit of information fascinating.".

  Were you known for rescuing the stray dogs and cats in your neighborhood? Think about some funny, touching, interesting things about yourself that you can weave into the conversation. Now, more importantly, be prepared to ask good questions.

Here's one of my favorites: If you could re-live one day of your life, which one would it be and why?

Stay in the moment, have fun, and let your love light glow!

Find Your Soulmate - Do Not Let The Media Mess With Your Mind

Men's Health magazine came up with the best cities in America to meet single men over 35. The results are based on six criteria: the ratio of unmarried men to unmarried women, divorce rates, fitness level, philanthropy, education level and attraction.

The top 20 cities are:

San Jose, California
Salt Lake City, Utah
Arlington, Texas
Raleigh, North Carolina
San Francisco, California
Fremont, California
Austin, Texas
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Washington, D.C.
San Diego, California
Charlotte, North Carolina
Dallas, Texas
Denver, Colorado
St. Paul, Minnesota
Seattle, Washington
Houston, Texas
New York, New York
Madison, Wisconsin
Fort Worth, Texas
Durham, North Carolina

Whether or not your city made the top 20 will have NO impact on your ability to manifest a soul mate.

If you have clear intentions, if you have cleaned up your past relationships (and related issues), and you have prepared yourself on every level... the Universe will find a way to bring you & your soul mate together. It is not your job to know how this will happen. It is only your job to prepare and KNOW that it will happen.

Find Your Soulmate- You Must Romance Yourself

One of the biggest symbols of romance in our culture is a bouquet of beautiful, fragrant flowers. The flowers provide a multi-sensory experience that evoke pleasure in most people. When was the last time you bought yourself a really extravagant array of flowers? If it's romance you crave, begin today by creating it for yourself. Look for ways each day to show yourself how much you really care. Besides keeping fresh flowers at my bedside, here are some of my favorite things to do to keep an aura of romance in my home:

1) Each evening I fill the bathtub with aromatherapy oils and light a few candles.
2) Never eat standing up. Set a place at the table (even if it's the coffee table) and use a nice placemat. Add a little elegance to your daily life.
3) A bowl of fresh fruit. Ask yourself this. If your beloved were to arrive at your front door today, would you want at least some fresh fruit to serve him or her?

When manifesting big love, remember that first you must be YOUR biggest fan.

Feng Shui For Meeting Your Soulmate

Just as we clear the clutter from our hearts we must also clear the clutter from our homes. Feng Shui is an excellent system for creating positive energy in our home and one of the first rules is to get rid of all the clutter. (this includes the stuff under your bed). According the art of Feng Shui, every home has a relationship corner...a section that can be "enlivened" by adding crystals, candles, and images of happy pairings. Give yourself every advantage and find your relationship corner today.

The Relationships corner is located on the furthest right side of your main entrance  as well as every room in your home.
We will be writing more on this topic very soon.

Who Are Your Soulmate Role Model's ?

Do you have a role model for romance? Who is your ideal couple? The old saying "if I can see it I can believe it," is valid because for most folks, "seeing is believing." If there isn't a couple in your life that demonstrates the type of soul mate relationship you plan to have, then identify a couple you don't know to focus on. One of my favorites is Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward. They have been married and in love since 1958. Just as you would learn a recipe before trying a complicated new dish in the kitchen, you also want to study successful partnerships. Start looking for couples to admire and learn from.

Believe That You Can Meet Your Soulmate

Before we can be successful at anything in life we must first BELIEVE that we can do it.
Take a moment to think about the people, projects and events you have manifested in your life. Just prior to making those things happen you may recall that you also BELIEVED it would happen. This also applies to manifesting a soul mate. The Universe operates the same for everyone. Whether you have manifested a parking space or the job of a lifetime, you also have the power to manifest Big Love.

Having A Clear Vision About Your Soulmate

Think about the last time you went shopping for a pair of shoes. Chances are you knew before you went to the store if you wanted the shoes for business, sports or dress-up, right? You also probably knew what size, color, style and heel height would appeal to you. And, you may even have had a budget in mind. And, I'll bet that once you spent some time searching for these shoes you eventually found the perfect pair.

You were able to manifest your perfect shoes because you had a clear vision of what you were looking for. Manifesting a soul mate can be nearly as effortless if you first have a clear vision of what he or she will be like.

First begin with the physical traits and make a specific list that includes age range, height/weight range and appearance. For reasons I will never understand, I always wanted a man with gray hair. ( Arielle Ford notes, "My soul mate, Brian, went gray in his thirties. When we met he was 39 and completely gray.")

Next, begin to list the qualities of the personality that most appeals to you. Finally, and most importantly, add to this list descriptions of how you will feel in this relationship. Take a moment to close your eyes and imagine how you feel as you are walking through life with your beloved. Do you feel love, cherished and adored? Do you feel connected, trusting, joyful and serene? Breathe into these feelings while visualizing your new life with your soul mate. Then make time each day to do this as you savor the waiting.

Pay Attention To The Signs - Bring Your Soulmate To You

One morning five years ago, Englishman David Brown woke up with a cell phone number running through his mind. Brown had no idea where the number came from, and sent a text message to it, hoping to solve the mystery. He reached Michelle Kitson, who lived 60 miles away. She had no explanation, but after several messages back and forth, they struck up a friendship that blossomed into love. The two ended up getting married and have just returned from their honeymoon in India. "She really is the girl of my dreams," said Brown.

This true story was reported this week in the magazine THE WEEK. For me it's a clear reminder that we must remember to follow and trust our dreams and intuition AND that the Universe will often send us signs that will lead us to love.

Are you ready to manifest your soul mate? Is receiving this email a "sign" that it's now time for you to begin to "prepare and learn how to manifest?" What can you do today
to bring your soul mate to you?

Are You Ready For Your Soulmate ? Big Love ?

Are you really ready for Big Love?

If you can answer YES to these statements, you are ready:

I love and nurture myself.
I have healed the baggage of my past relationships.
I am clear about the kind of person and relationship I now wish to manifest.
I have the time, energy and resources to nurture another.
I believe that I am deserving of Big Love and that the "one" is out there and he/she is also looking for me.

If you answered no to any of these, don't worry. Just know that this is the area of your life that needs attention. If you need assistance, order Direct Your Soulmate Into Your Life
today and begin the process

Are You Ready To Be a Soulmate ? Being Someone's place to land ?

One of the best things about sharing your life with your soul mate is having a life filled with unconditional love. Soul mates are often each other's best friend and as such the relationship becomes a "soft place to land" when life becomes difficult or stressful or scary. This "soft place to land" is both a physical place in your home as well as an emotional space in the relationship.

While you are in the process of becoming a magnet for love, create a physical space in your home right now that is your "soft place to land." It can be as simple as a comfy over-sized chair in the corner of a room or a soft hammock for two under a tree in your backyard. Use this space on a daily basis to focus your attention on your intention for Big Love.

On the emotional side, look and see who is in your life right now - a friend, family member, or co-worker -- for whom you can become a "soft pace to land." Practice providing them with the love, compassion, and non-judgmental support you plan to share with your soul mate when he/she arrives in your life.